We’ve all been there. You were doing so well. You were training hard. You were seeing the results. Watching the pounds shed off. Becoming stronger, feeling lighter, fitter. Then all of a sudden you find yourself devouring a huge chunk of chocolate cake. Emptying another bottle of wine. Feeling miserable, tired, lazy.
I’ve been working with a lot of people lately, speaking with even more, who have just hit a slump. It can be both physical and emotional. In your training or in your psyche. It can be caused from something as minor as an unforseen appointment or an onslaught of issues. Having a bad day? Eat poorly so you decide to pick back up next week? But next week never comes. Well my friends, I have them too. I can tell you this, every day counts! Every meal counts, every moment counts. So you fell down! Don’t wait until next week to start over. Do something NOW!
Take some time to realize just what it was that created this mindset, this er in your ways. Now, let’s fix it. Understanding why these things happen is as important as what you will do next. Because often, it is something you can or need to change that is the real issue. Perhaps you are just bored with your routine. Perhaps you have hit a plateau and your body needs a shift to take it to the next level. Sometimes, believe it or not, you just need to rest.
Burnout is often the root of the problem. You have been doing the same thing day after day. The same exercises at the same time on the same days. You need to shake it up! Your body becomes used to this routine and no longer responds. Your mind becomes accustomed and you become bored. And often, you don’t even realize it. You just find yourself not wanting to eat that salad. Not wanting to do those squats. Not wanting to enter that gym. So don’t!
Creating variety in your life is essential. Now, I know some of you are going to say “I need routine. Without it I just don’t function properly”. Well, maybe that is only what you think. Or maybe you just need to find ways to stick to your “routine” but mix it up just enough so that you aren’t still stuck in this rut. It can be done.
Busting through a plateau isn’t always easy. Sometimes you need someone else to take a look at what you have been doing to give you a better perspective. Sometimes you need to challenge yourself in one way or another. I suggest start by adding something new. Take your workout outside. Discover a new exercise. Sign up for a team sport. Find something that challenges you. Just DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT.
Now let’s take a look at your diet. Have you been eating the same lunch day after day? Do you find yourself bingeing in the evening because you just have to have something other than that salad and chicken? Well stop eating it. Doing the same thing day after day may work for a while, but so often it is the reason people “fall of the wagon” so to speak. They just can’t take it anymore. Nor do I blame them. I am a “foodie”. I love food. I love to cook. I love all things gourmet and delicious. If I were forced to eat the same meal day after day I would resign myself to eating the chocolate cake and being fat too. (ok, maybe not, but I sure as hell would find a way to make it different!)
There are so many ways to eat healthy without having to eat the same thing twice. It all starts with a plan! Spend 20 minutes online searching for healthy recipes. Create a list of groceries and write down what you are going to eat on what day. You can change it up just by adding different vegetables to your salad, making different dressings, seasoning your chicken with different herbs. It’s not as hard as it sounds. Just give it a try. Give yourself an hour or two on a day off to prepare for the week ahead. You are worth an hour or two aren’t you?
Physical health IS emotional health. They go hand in hand. When one is out of whack so will be the other. And one can be used to correct the other. Something really bad just happened. You want to crawl in a hole and hide. You are upset with yourself or something or someone, you want to get in bed and sleep it away. Has this ever really helped? Has the act of sleeping, hiding, ever fixed the problem? Did it really make you feel better? Or just prolonged the process?
There isn’t anyone out there who hasn’t had something they wanted to run from. The best part of life is knowing the bad so that you can enjoy the good. Without knowing pain and loss how can you truly appreciate all the wonderful things in your life? You aren’t going to welcome them, but you can face them. You can fight. You can do something that makes you feel strong, that burns off the stress. That takes away the pain or confusion or frustration. It’s hard to think about your problems when you are kicking your own ass with a stack of weights. It’s difficult to worry about what to do about that nagging issue when you can’t breathe from all those burpees. And when you are done, miraculously you find yourself feeling accomplished, clear, strong. Able to handle what has been thrown at you.
Stop beating yourself up. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop worrying. Stop putting everyone and everything before you! You have one life. You have one body. Treat them well.
I’m going to say it again, because it is so very important…..
EVERY DAY COUNTS. EVERY MEAL COUNTS. EVERY MOMENT COUNTS.
Take care of yourself.
Live Well!
~S
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